These days I.....I was just thinking over something....something really confusing...
In luv no one can ever get over someone they luv and in attraction with the passage of time, people forget about it. It might not happen within just a day... though it takes some time, but finally this gets erased out of the picture & their minds as well. Luv is a pure feeling, where you fall in luv with someone, who is luv of your life and you want to spend your whole life with that one. U can do anything for their sake. Their happiness is the only thing that matter to you and they are the most important people to you on the face of this Globe. No matter how hard one tries, but can never get rid of these feelings in life and can’t forget anything about someone they luv. As they say.......every1 falls in luv...at least once...Moreover, as far as my knowledge is concerned it happens at most once. I think it happens only once in the whole life. Second time it's just a compromise...with Ur fate...with Ur feelings & with Ur life. So it’s up to the person who is in luv to decide whether it is luv or something else.
Ok! Let me convey it 2 u guys.......So I’m gonna throw some light upon this…
Well, there were days when two people were coming so much closer 2 each other.....of course a boy & a girl.......let me clarify what I really mean....else u guys may take me wrong........ok. 4get it...When they were coming closer, most of them were sure that it is luv...definitely...I mean hardly somebody was confused about it.
But now-a-days......not only d time but the youth & their perception & views have got changed & so b their concepts. What is going on now is that they are still confused about their relations even after understanding each other thoroughly & this confusion has got the real twist in their relation; this might changes their entire life drastically. And I will say that such confusion must be there in this youth & adolescence where people change their partner frequently as if they r changing their T-Shirt. That's it...? Doesn’t it really matter to them...?? It not, why not.........???????
So my matter of concern is what the confusion is..? It’s obvious & certain. The only question in their mind when two people start liking each other is, "Whether it is really love or just an Attraction?"
The major diversity between luv and lure is that, “Luv” is pure and it stays with someone forever, but attraction is just for the time being. It doesn't mean that attraction is impure... but lure has got many forms which r the basis on which it can be decided that how it is. When the term “Attraction” is concerned, it is basically because of the reason for liking them, either physically or mentally or may be due to any personal choice or reason. Of course everybody has got their own taste & choice.
In luv no one can ever get over someone they luv and in attraction with the passage of time, people forget about it. It might not happen within just a day... though it takes some time, but finally this gets erased out of the picture & their minds as well. Luv is a pure feeling, where you fall in luv with someone, who is luv of your life and you want to spend your whole life with that one. U can do anything for their sake. Their happiness is the only thing that matter to you and they are the most important people to you on the face of this Globe. No matter how hard one tries, but can never get rid of these feelings in life and can’t forget anything about someone they luv. As they say.......every1 falls in luv...at least once...Moreover, as far as my knowledge is concerned it happens at most once. I think it happens only once in the whole life. Second time it's just a compromise...with Ur fate...with Ur feelings & with Ur life. So it’s up to the person who is in luv to decide whether it is luv or something else.
Some people say that they won't ever fell in luv ...But frankly telling, it never happens. I mean either they r already in; but hiding it, or even they don't know that they r in luv. Luv…... the worthiest feeling of the creation….It has got the colors of rainbow, scent of flower & warmth of sun. It is gelid like ice & gives pleasant like spring. It has got the most precious feelings in it. So how can someone keep himself aloof from it?
In attraction, people get over with the feeling as time moves on. And soon they are in luv with someone else. This is not luv, luv is something entirely different. Something really very mighty, really divine... & too mellifluous. Unlike any attraction, it is a feeling which does not reduce with time; rather increases as time move up. Both Luv & Wine; more they get old get sweeter. The story of luv is different and many have not understood it but yet fall for it.
Well I have got another crap 2 make this clear.
Attraction is just... what it is...Just an initial interest in two people which brings them together...
Once this attraction occurs, both take the time to ascertain more about one another. If given a needed amount of time, this time reveals whether or not the mutual attraction will be platonic or a kinship that will grow into luv. When respect, patience, trust, agony, suffering, hope, and a deep caring for the one u like gets developed, a loving relationship may certainly develop out of that attraction. Once these elements and foundations are planted and sowed, both who are involved will naturally move in step together to the same rhythm & they will yield lots of luv & care. And definitely they are going to make an ideal couple. There is no mistrust.
There are also many forms of luv, the luv of a friend, the luv of God, the luv for a family member and last but not the least... Luv for Luv....Luv takes time, patience and nurturing. Luv is sacred in God's sight. More over luv is Timeless, Priceless & in fact, Shameless......
Though attraction is a positive feeling, when a barrier gets in the way, if the attraction melts, luv can't happen. But if the barrier feels more like something that the two can make better & like making their way to get rid of the hurdle, then that's when attraction has grown into luv.
So if u like anybody & u think u r in luv please make sure that u r actually in luv...what people call “True luv”. Though I don’t believe such a term like “true luv” is there as there is no existence of “false luv”. Coz’ luv is true…. forever it is true. So Luv must not carry such an adjective. That’s really bullshit!!! U can conceive it when they are apart & away from u... if u still remember them, u still like them u still luv them, then Congrads. Yeh !!! U r in luv... But if u like any other then there comes two options. Yes, if u have forgotten the former one then the current one might be luv, & if not then then the former one is certainly... luv of ur life..... Even after this if u r thinking of the 3rd 1.........then 4get it.......Coz' it's not luv it's something else that I can't say...
Anyway, after so many theories & so many concepts, do u really think it's that easy 2 guess & substantiate whether this is luv or attraction.......????????
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Well, I don't think so... If u too feels the same, then no need to think over such a concept. Don’t judge ur relation....Coz' if u will do that, u can never make one.
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